Does Size Matter
Does Size Matter? If not, what does? Recently Jack and I received an email asking for a blog post about men. Specifically, we were asked if size matters and what…
Sex with Limitations and Disabilities
Sex with Limitations and Disabilities If the questions is can I, the answer is yes! Many people ask if they can be a swinger or a hotwife if they have…
Boundaries
Boundaries in the Lifestyle Helping you feel safe and secure Talking about boundaries with your partner can be a fun and interesting conversation. Sexy too. Communicating your boundaries leads to…
Communication
Communication Talking to your partner about entering the lifestyle Communication is a major part of any relationship. Communication in the lifestyle is even more important. Take the time and make…
Still Here
Hi! I'm still here, I promise. All the training for my new job has me overwhelmed at the moment. It's the not so fun side of my life, but lucky…
Lifestyle Words and Abbreviations
Lifestyle Words and Abbreviations When we first started in the lifestyle there were words and abbreviations people used that I did not know the meaning of. I had to go…
Mr. Rambunctious
Mr. Rambunctious On a slow Thursday night we met a guy new to the lifestyle and the club. Mr. Rambunctious. So much potential for so much fun. Jack and I…
Ethical Non-Monogamy
Ethical Non-Monogamy What is it and why do it? Definition Ethical non-monogamy (ENM) is the practice of taking part in romantic and/or sexual relationships that are not completely exclusive between…
Taking Action
Taking Action You and your partner have talked and talked and finally decided it’s time for action. Maybe you’ve role played with dildos or just shared fantasies while having sex.…
Ghosts, Flakes, and Rescheduling
Ghosts, Flakes, and Rescheduling Being a hotwife is fun, but there can be downsides. Dealing with ghosts, flakes, and rescheduling is never fun. Sure, sometimes life happens and you have…